Who doesn’t want her love relationship to last or last until the marriage level? I am sure that everyone who is in a love relationship has the main goal, that the relationship he is living in can last until he is married. But to achieve that goal is not very easy. Need to pass tests and obstacles that often fail. Naturally, because Allah Almighty created anything in this world, playing basics. Likewise in having sex relationships sometimes there are times of happiness and then will experience a gloomy period. Relationships with girlfriends will not always run smoothly or continue to be romantic.
If a relationship with a boyfriend always runs smooth it’s not a life. The name of life will surely be found in various obstacles and obstacles. And only those who are able to control each other’s egos will find happiness.
1. Both partners must understand each other
Humans are created to have different egos, even though humans are one offspring, their egos will not be the same. While the process of making love is the discovery of two different egos. Therefore, quarrels in the world of love relationships are not unfamiliar. Sometimes the quarrel is triggered because it has properties that want to win each other on their own.
The main key for your love relationship to last forever try to learn to control each other’s selfishness. Often learn to understand each other what is lacking in a partner. Until at any time if you are unable to control feelings to understand your partner, then your love relationship is guaranteed to never last.
2. Learn Each Other Trust
Never mind the new stage of the relationship, it has arrived at the level of marriage even if we do not have a sense of trust, the relationship will approach destruction. We will never be able to always monitor all partner activities. Therefore, eliminate the mistrust of your partner.
If you basically don’t trust your partner, then the relationship should not continue. It’s just a waste of time, it’s useless. If you want your relationship to last forever, get up from now on trust in your partner as long as your partner is not in front of you.
Excessive jealousy is a category that basically does not believe in a partner. Get rid of these feelings from now on. Give your partner freedom to live their lives. Do not be too monitoring all the activities of your partner’s life.
3. Build Good Communication
If we can build trust, even long distance courtship is not a problem. Because we have a great deal of trust in a partner. Then keep your relationship with good communication. Long distance will not be felt if in connection always maintain communication. In dating, the attitude of giving news to the couple is a good action. And that is an example of maintaining good communication.
It is assumed that maintaining good communication with a partner will make a relationship last forever. Because by always maintaining communication will give an atmosphere of being calm, growing trust in the partner, and others.
4. Always Be Honest
Mutual trust and honesty in relationships are still strong correlations. Whatever form a lie lies in having a relationship, it is a sign that your relationship is approaching the dissolution. Learn to behave as you are, do not have a spell of lies.
Although speaking honestly is bitter but much better than having to speak lies. Building strong relationships to get to the level of marriage, the key is to learn honestly from now on.
5. Always be Romantic
Everyone will be happy if their partner is romanticized. Romantic attitude is the spice of love that can foster the lasting power of love. Don’t hesitate to make something romantic in any activity. Small or large your attention is made to the couple, if done sincerely it will make it difficult to forget. And this will make your relationship last forever until you get married.
With a romantic attitude, the couple will feel cared for. Couples will feel comfortable with you. Romance can be done through speech, attitude, how to dress, and so forth.